The Challenge And Choice Method For Changing Your Relationship To Life
Step one: Contracts And Scripts
Once the journey of self-inspection has begun, new vitality and the desire to share is a natural response. Despite our hopes that, with sharing, new opportunities to receive will occur, disappointment or an opportunity to face the central challenge in life frequently happens instead (14). How we respond is an opportunity to develop internal will.
Internal will is the exercising of responsible choice, which means something different for each of the nine personality types. It is the quality and quantity of energy that is put into learning that defines the amount of grace that is eventually received, not the act of sharing in and of itself (15).